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Trusting the Process — How Letting Go Leads to Greater Things

May 07, 2025

What if the moment you release control… is the moment everything aligns?

There was a time I clung tightly to the plan.

You know the one—where you map out every detail of how your life should go.
Where you stay in the job you hate because it’s stable.
Where you say yes to things that drain you because they look good on paper.
Where you follow a timeline that someone else wrote for you.

I lived that version of life for far too long.

Until it broke me.
Until my soul whispered, “There’s more than this.”

And finally—I listened.

The Art of Surrender

What I’ve learned—through pregnancy, relationships, international moves, launching a global business, and letting go of deeply rooted identities—is that surrender is not passive.

It’s not giving up.
It’s giving over.

It’s saying:
“I’m done forcing. I’m done gripping. I’m ready to trust something deeper.”

Letting go of the old plan made space for the life I was actually meant to live.
And let me be clear—this didn’t happen overnight.

It happened moment by moment, in the quiet choices:

  • Saying no to the misaligned gig even when I needed the money.
  • Leaving a relationship, a job, a location—even when it felt terrifying.
  • Launching something new without knowing how it would all work out.

Each time I let go, I landed more fully in who I really am.
And from that place? Magic unfolded.

The Process is the Path

So often we think we’re “off track” when things fall apart.

But what if… that is the track?

What if the process—the uncertainty, the pivot, the pause—isn’t a detour… but the very thing that shapes us?

I know now that I had to let go of the structured, polished plan in order to receive what I actually needed: 

  • A business that reflects my soul.
  • A life of deep freedom and purpose.
  • A body that knows rest.
  • A heart open enough to receive love.
  • A path of motherhood that came right on time.

All of it was born in the letting go.

Your Invitation: Let Go, and Trust

If you’re feeling uncertain right now—good.

It means you’re listening. It means something new is trying to emerge.

Here are a few simple ways to begin trusting the unfolding:

✧ Reflect:

Ask yourself—what am I holding onto that’s keeping me small or stuck?

Journal or Meditate:

Spend 10 minutes exploring surrender. Let the question lead:

What in my life am I trying to control that I could surrender?

How can I embrace uncertainty and trust in the unfolding path?

What signs or messages have I received that I’m on the right path?


✧ Set an Intention:

Say it out loud, write it in your journal, or whisper it before sleep:
“I am open to receiving what is meant for me. I trust the timing. I trust the path.”

You are not behind.
You are not failing.
You are not lost.

You are becoming.
And becoming is not linear—it’s sacred.

So soften your grip, love.

You are meant for this.

And everything you’ve been seeking… is already on its way.

With love and full trust,

< 3 Megan

The Embodied Warrior

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